
Steve USA
I have searched for years to connect with the perfect person and Melissa you are that person. Your content is lightyears beyond my greatest expectations. In fact it is Unbelievable. I not only learned So Much about myself, but about you ladies as well. You have managed to normalize everything in such a way that makes one feel comfortable with ones own truth.Â
There are not enough Thanks You's I can offer, as I got so much out of everything in this program.
Thank You! Thank You! Thank You! A Million, Gazillion times. Absolutely awesome.Â
So much gratitude to you Melissa.

Mathew
Melissa definitely is a pro at creating safe, fun and colourful spaces in which she holds her programs. I can say without a doubt that I would recommend her work to anybody and everybody who is looking to learn more of the arts of pleasure, satisfaction, connection, and love.
"Lover - Do you find yourself stuck in your head overthinking sex with your partner before it even starts?
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The pressure to please, to perform, to âbe the manâ weighing heavily in your heart as you avoid intimacy with any excuse possible.Â
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You're analyzing, worrying, second-guessing. Sex is supposed to feel good, but instead, it feels like a test you just can't get right.
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You want to want her. You need to have sex as you crave the connection, but your body
or cđck just wonât respond.
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     Maybe It happens so damn fast that the moment is over before she has even really starts to enjoy herself and now you canât look her in the eyes. You tell yourself youâll do better next time, but the pressure just makes it worse.Â
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     Or maybe your a man always trying to finish, but no matter how long you last, itâs like your body is stuck in limbo. You know she is wondering if itâs her and that you are not attracted to her anymore. You know it is not that but you canât explain it. The effort feels exhausting, the frustration builds, and sex starts to feel like a performance where you just don't get anywhere.
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     Or maybe it is like the switch has been turned off. You use to feel the fire. The hunger. The craving. But not anymore and you donât know why. It has been sssooo long since you just had sex with her any time, anywhere, anyhow. And this scares you.Â
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     She reaches for you, but you pull away avoiding intimacy as you make excuses because the fear of failing again is worse than not trying at all.  Not because you donât love her, but because you donât know how to explain whatâs happening. And with every rejection, you feel the distance between you growing wider. You feel her disappointment and worry if she thinks less of you. Â
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     The frustration, the embarrassment, the guiltâitâs a cycle you canât seem to break. The worst part is you feel as if youâre letting both of you down as you ask again and again and again âWhatâs wrong with me?â
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What if I told you it does not have to be this way ?
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Today the average man lasts only 4 min from penetration to ejaculation. A woman's body needs 30 -40 minutes to become fully aroused, turned on and orgasmic.
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Constantly ejaculating weakens a man's vitality.
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Premature Ejaculation is a sign of our highly stressed times. It does not have to be the norm and every man can change it.
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Many acts of sex leave women feeling dissatisfied and distant from their partners.
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A mans power lies in his ejaculation choice. Not just in the bedroom but in all areas of his life.
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Are you ready to take control of your life from the inside out?
Man in Control is a powerful, no-nonsense, short yet content rich, 4 module program designed to have you master your sexual energy and develop unshakable confidence in and outside of the bedroom
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Great lovers are not born.
They are made.Â

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"Sometimes I would come earlier than I wanted and other times I could not come when I wanted to. All that changed after five weeks of lessons from Melissa. "
- Greg USA

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Melissa's program is nothing short of beautiful.
Becoming more educated about my sexual energy has allowed me to better harness this power to increase my overall health, focus, and confidence. For so long, I had taken part in unhealthy sexual practices because I had never been taught by parents, society or friends, what a healthy sex life really looks like. Something that Melissa said that has always stuck with me was that "we are never taught how to be great lovers". Melissa is the perfect teacher to help guide anyone on learning how to be that great lover!Â
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- Conner USA

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"In her field and in life Melissa is one badass angel. She has put my life on a whole new sexual and sensual trajectory for which I am eternally grateful "
-Â Richard. Costa Rica
Learning how to have ejaculation choice means...
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You gain confidence in and outside of the bedroom becoming a better and more satisfying lover.
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You master the power to choose when, how & with whom you ejaculate.Â
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You experience so much more pleasure.
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Your partner gets to experience her true orgasmic potential as you gift her the time to do so
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Your masturbation practice fuels your body with energy instead of depleting it.Â
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You have stronger erections
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Your experience increased energy levels and a higher sex drive.
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You become multi orgasmic
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You make more money as you are harnessing sexual energy which is the creative energy of all the geniuses.
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You experience a deeper more satisfying connection to yourself and your partner


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Melissa, my life is so good right now. in fact, mainly because of the new approach youâve given me. Life is wonderful. And itâs an even a more beautiful thing to have my wife in it with me, in my corner, my ride-or-die.Â
I recently took her on a sex-cation and using all that I have learned from you changed everything. We experienced sex like we have not ever before. It was amazing.
Thank you for everything.
- Matt USA

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Melissa brings a powerful mix of knowledge about relationships and our masculine energies, combining medical understanding, cultural and spiritual philosophies, with straightforward anecdotes. She explains things in ways that stick. Her work makes complex ideas feel approachable and meaningful, showing how our inner world shapes our confidence, lovemaking, and connections with others.
- Sven Denmark

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Working with Melissa did more for our marriage than marital counselling.
If I had coaching with Melissa when I was in my 20âs it could have spared me a lot of fights and misunderstandings. Bill
-Â William USA
This program is for men who experience...
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đ Difficulty maintaining an erection
đ Premature ejaculation
đ Performance anxiety
đ Low sexual stamina
đ Lack of sexual confidence
đ Inconsistent sexual desire
đ Emotional disconnection during intimacy
đ Fear of sexual inadequacy
đ Stress-related sexual dysfunction
đ Porn-induced sexual challenges
đ Negative body image impacting sexual performance
đ Relationship intimacy issues
đ Reduced sexual sensitivity
đ Difficulty experiencing sexual pleasure
đ Mental distraction during sexual encounters
đ Low energy and vitality
đ Shame around sexual expression
đ. Feeling sexually unfulfilled or disconnected from their partner
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This program is for the man who wants to take control of his sexual energy once and for all. If you are seeking a practical, no-bullshit guide on how to last longer, be more confident, and master the art of self-control in and out of the bedroom, then go ahead and get inside of Man In Control now.

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What can I say about Melissa and her offerings that does her justice? Sheâs badass! This dynamic lady has an infectious energy that is off the scale.
Want to become a great lover, last longer in bed and be the lover your woman deserves? Melissa is the perfect teacher. Let her be your guide. Youâll have a blast along the way!
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George UK

"When I asked my wife the difference between sex before my coaching with Melissa compared to now. She said, âIt went from a good sprint to a marathon.â
- Bill USA

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I can only use two words to describe my coaching experience with Melissa: Life-changing.
With Melissa's help, I have been able to completely express myself and express my desires to help people with their sexuality and be a part to end the taboo era around Sex."
- Thibaut France
I'm Melissa Louise
18yrs ago I was hired by the owners of Penthouse in Sydney to teach their ladies how to make a man last longer so they would make more money! And they did.
As an Erotic Blueprint coach and your Pleasure Advocate I am here to emancipate men from their deep shame & insecurities when it comes to the bedroom. So they can own and harness the power of their cock so not only do they become the man who fucks his woman wide open, through her mind, heart and pussy but also the man that is more trustworthy, powerful and knows more freedom by fully embodying his life rooted in his mission.
In my work I combine Tantric, Daoist & Kink 101 teachings, as well as bringing my knowledge as a Conscious Breathwork facilitator, Accelerated Evolution coach and trainings in Access Consciousness into the sexy mix.
Above all, I am an intuitive coach and healer. An embodiment of the deepest feminine gift, “The felt sense”
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It is time to stop shying away
from your greatness.
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